following Aamir Khanthe intimate wedding with Gauri Spratt, his close friend and ‘Lagaan’ co-star Amen Hajee has spoken candidly about the actor’s past relationships, sharing his thoughts on Aamir’s split from Kiran Rao and what he admires about Reena Dutta, Kiran and Gauri.In an interview with Rediff.com, Amin admitted that the news of Aamir and Kiran ending their marriage had taken him by surprise. “That’s a question I’ve often asked myself. If someone can explain why two people fall in love, maybe they can also explain why they fall out of love.” Reflecting on relationships, Amin said they often have more layers than they appear to outsiders.“Relationships are much more complex. People evolve, change, and sometimes grow in different directions. With the passage of time, they may realize that they are not the same people they were before.” He added that he never felt it was appropriate to ask Aamir or Kiran about the reasons behind their breakup. “Aamir and Kiran were together for 15 years. When they told us they were splitting up, I was really shocked. But what impressed me was the way they handled it. Not once did they behave in a way that suggested bitterness or hostility. What was personal remained personal. There were no public arguments, no disrespect. I don’t know what happened between them because they don’t talk about such personal reasons with us.”According to Amin, the cordial bond between Kiran and Gauri Spratt is another reflection of the maturity with which everyone has handled the situation.“I have seen Kiran and Gauri chatting warmly. There is no awkwardness or negativity.” Having been friends with Aamir for nearly 30 years, Amin reflected on the important role each of the three women has played in the different phases of the actor’s life.Talking about Reena Dutta, she credited her unwavering support during the making of ‘Lagaan’. “Reena was like a rock. She stepped in to produce Lagaan because she knew Aamir needed her support.”He also recalled the mutual respect the pair shared while working together on the film. “Whenever there were disagreements over budgets or production, Aamir never balked at his opinions. He would patiently explain why certain decisions had to be made for the sake of the film. There was great mutual respect between them.”Amin admitted that Aamir and Reena’s split affected him deeply. “When Aamir told us that he and Reena were separating, I was heartbroken.”He then recalled that he first met Kiran Rao when he was an assistant director on ‘Lagaan’. Recalling an incident from the shoot, Amin said he had refused to report to the set after being spoken to rudely by another assistant director. “Then Kiran came and said, ‘Baggu, put the tikkas only when you feel ready.’ No one is going to force you.” She didn’t make me feel guilty, though I realized later that she herself had probably been reprimanded because of the delay. That’s how I remember Kiran: smart and compassionate.”Speaking about Gauri Spratt, Amin described her as someone who has quietly won over those around her. “Gauri is special in his own way. We have spent time together in Panchgani, where she enjoys long walks, nature and a simple lifestyle. She is an accomplished entrepreneur and has worked in the fashion and beauty business. But she doesn’t talk about her achievements.” He added that what sets Gauri apart the most is her emotional maturity.“What stands out about Gauri is her emotional intelligence. She listens before she speaks. She prefers to understand all aspects of a situation before forming an opinion.” Aamir himself has previously spoken about the enduring respect he shares with Reena Dutta and Kiran Rao despite the end of their marriages.In an earlier interview with India Today, the actor reflected on the importance of both women in his life. “You know the important people I met in my life, like Reena – she and I got married when we were together for 16 years. It was a runaway marriage; we ran away to get married. The most important relationships I’ve had in my life were with these wonderful people. Both Reena and Kiran are amazing people. These two women are the ones I’ve been with and they’ve given me life.He also said that although their relationship had evolved over time, the love and mutual respect between them had endured.